can you really get any reults from this site

Girl, no shade I'm at point where i want to go celibate..... I'm 28 now i have had 3 fail relationship in these last 9 years since i transition, n2 the woman I am today.... Yesterday 3 of the sites i go on regular, I delete my account.... I TRUE BELIEVE IF I JUST WORK ON ME, EVERY THING ELSE IN MY LIFE WILL FALL N PLACE...